Sure we often want to match ourselves with woman seeking men of certain look and physical properties and that is entirely natural. However if we are overweight and have never seen the inside of a gym then I think its fair to say that we may not be the perfect meet girls to a sportsman or a model. We simply because nature tells us that we match with likes. On a base level we are here, says nature, to procreate and so we select accordingly. That of course on its own would be too shallow a premise to write this article but the first element of any match is physical compatibility. Matching with someone on a purely physical level is not enough to last.  After all you must be able to wake up next to some single dating woman for months or years to come, and you must want to be able to make love to them in some form, even if its simply kissing. I often here some people meet woman that say that appearance is not important to them and I am always impressed. What they really mean is that looks are not important as along as you like the look of that person already.